Thursday, June 25, 2009

A rainy afternoon..an old friend online..a cup of coffee



Do you remember those days when we used to write letters. Ofcourse that is one of the most romantic things in life. We have moved places all the time and every time we moved to a new city, we always lost touch with most friends, some stayed in touch. Infact it used to be the most amazing experience to open the mail box to find a new letter.

Over the years we got busy and it was the letter that took the hit. Then came the magical email and internet and messengers. It was all so mind boggling and looked like something out of the universe. I still remember the first time I went to an internet cafe and sat in front of the pc and took almost an hour and half to create an email id. Obviously the internet cafe guy was the one who even suggested the password and told me, "madam, apna password baad mein change kar lena" (change your password later on). I faintly smiled back at him, thinking to myself that, that is going to take a million years for me to learn that. That night, I dreamed of email, user names, passwords..it was as if I had entered space. Really funny to think of now. But I woke up feeling like a zombie. Of course the internet has changed the way of life for all of us.

Today I know that I wouldn't want to trade my "rainy afternoon..an old friend online..a cup of coffee" for anything in the world.

A woman is like water

I remember having this conversation with an old friend when I had just begun to work. We were talking about how a woman's responsibility only seems to increase with time. His view was that a "Woman is like Water"...She has to take shape of the container that she is poured into. I somehow couldn't take it as this guy seemed to be sounding like a male chauvinist. We argued and argued until to seemed endless.

After so many years, I have somehow come to understand the beauty of this statement. Though my friend might not have intended this way but surely we women are like water and can adapt to any situation so beautifully and gracefully.Indeed we are like water.